Are you experiencing a dip in libido and yearning to reignite your desire?
Do you find yourself unable to recall the last time you truly craved intimacy?

Know that this is very common in a long-term relationship.
Despite the initial spark in new relationships, the flame often fades over time, especially amid the hustle of a demanding job, the responsibilities of parenthood, and the chaos of everyday life.

Now, you avoid any kind of intimacy; you make sure you don’t go to bed at the same time, and you no longer want to kiss or hug for fear that your partner will get aroused, and you’ll have to say ‘no’ again, leaving your partner feeling disappointed and rejected. This pattern has persisted, leaving you burdened with guilt and anxiety about the future of your relationship. You may even question your own desirability and feel a sense of brokenness.
You long to reclaim your former self: confident, sensual, and empowered.

The good news is that it is possible to break free from the constraints of low libido and that you can rediscover the joy of intimacy.

When it comes to lovemaking, you find yourself trapped in your thoughts, unable to fully immerse in the moment of pleasure. This disconnect often turns intimacy into a chore, leaving you yearning for a more fulfilling experience. Growing up, sex was rarely discussed, leaving you without the tools to embrace pleasure shamelessly.

Yet, deep within, you sense a longing for uninhibited pleasure: a desire for sexual freedom. You crave the ability to talk openly about your desires and to engage in erotic play without guilt or shame. You yearn to fully indulge in the pleasures of intimacy and perhaps explore new horizons.
Imagine a life where intimacy is not just a box to tick on your to-do list but a source of genuine fulfilment and connection. It is possible.

Are you ready to embark on this empowering journey toward sexual freedom?

If you’re among the 25% of women who rarely or never reach climax, or part of the approximately 70% who don’t reach orgasm through penetration alone, sex can be frustrating and unsatisfying.

While you may derive pleasure from intimacy, it often feels like a race against time, with your partner reaching the finish line before you even hit your stride. As they lie in bed, fulfilled, and spent, you’re left yearning for more. Doubts creep in—Is there something wrong with me? Why can’t I reach orgasm?
Sometimes you self-pleasure, hoping to find the satisfaction that eludes you during penetrative sex with your partner, but even then, orgasm seems just out of reach. This can leave you feeling even more frustrated and isolated.

Together, we can explore techniques and strategies to enhance your pleasure and guide you on a journey toward orgasmic bliss.

Embark on a journey of self-discovery and intimacy through the ancient wisdom of Tao and Tantra, where sacred sexuality transcends physical stimulation to harness the flow of vital life force energy.

In Daoist and Tantra-based practices, delve into the profound connection between mind, body, and spirit, embracing your thoughts, emotions, and desires to deepen intimacy with yourself and your partner.

Picture yourself exploring sexuality as a transformative pathway, where every touch and sensation becomes an opportunity for connection and growth. As you learn to tap into your innate sexual energy, you’ll discover newfound levels of pleasure and fulfilment, enriching every facet of your life with vibrant energy and profound connection.

Experiencing discomfort during penetration can result from a variety of factors such as insufficient lubrication, childbirth, aging, or menopause, often leaving women avoiding intimacy.

As soon as he enters you, it hurts. Sometimes it starts ok but after a few minutes you notice the pain. Instead of expressing this, you often hope that he will orgasm as quickly as possible so that it is over, and the pain stops. Sometimes you even fake an orgasm because you know it will make him come faster. You feel broken and alone. You don’t want to tell him it hurts for fear of hurting his feelings. You tell yourself that it’s not so bad. After all, it’s only once a week (or less, if you manage to avoid it for longer). Besides, sex (and especially penetration) is part of a good relationship, right? Yet, you find yourself withdrawing from intimacy more often.

It is possible to overcome this! By addressing the root cause of your pain and communicating openly with your partner, you can rediscover the joy of intimacy.

Whether it stems from sexual assault, traumatic childbirth, severe stress, illness, or other impactful events, the aftermath of trauma can profoundly affect the relationship with your body and intimacy.

Feeling disconnected, numb, or overwhelmed is a common experience in such situations.
But there’s hope. Through tailored sessions incorporating Somatic Experiencing®, a renowned body-based trauma resolution modality, you can embark on a journey towards healing and reclaiming your sense of self.

With each session, you’ll learn valuable tools to navigate triggers, regulate your nervous system, and cultivate a greater sense of presence and aliveness. As you deepen your connection with your body and emotions, you’ll discover new pathways to experiencing pleasure and intimacy.

As women age and enter menopause, hormonal changes and physical transitions can impact their sexual health and desire for intimacy. Issues such as vaginal dryness, painful penetration, low libido, and emotional shifts can pose significant challenges to sexual satisfaction and connection with your partner. Additionally, societal norms and misconceptions around aging and sexuality may contribute to feelings of inadequacy or shame.

In our sessions, I offer a supportive and nonjudgmental space for women to explore these changes, understand their bodies, and learn effective strategies for enhancing intimacy and pleasure.
Together, we’ll embrace this new chapter of life with openness and excitement, reclaiming pleasure and intimacy as integral parts of your journey.

Book a free discovery call today and let’s discuss how I can help you navigate these challenges and rediscover fulfilment in your intimate life.

​​​Together, we can unlock a newfound sense of freedom in your body, sexuality, and sensuality.